Wednesday, 26 October 2016

City of Bhoy: A ‘Dilliwala’ Bengali’s take on the Mocambo incident

To paraphrase one of the famous villains of Bollywood — Mocambo khush nahi hua. And the ‘City of Joy’ it seems has become a ‘City of Bhoy’ (fear).

I’ve been to this restaurant many times. It one of the oldest on Kolkata’s Park Street. If in town, this was a restaurant that always warranted a visit. This was on the to-do list of every person who is in Kolkata.
Mocambo is perhaps Kolkata’s most-famous eatery today serving old-style, typically Kolkata-continental (khansama) cuisine.
On Friday, Dilashi Hemnani, who was on a visit to the city for work decided to take her driver out for dinner at Mocambo as a token of thanks. Clearly, this ‘fine dining establishment’ could not let that happen. Remember the days of the Raj, when Indians and dog weren’t allowed — some of the vestiges still remain.
In a Facebook post that has now gone viral, Hemnani expressed her shock over what had happened.
“You want your cities clean and green; stick to Delhi. You want your cities, rich and impersonal, go to Bombay. You want them high-tech and full of draught beer, Bangalore’s your place. But if you want a city with a soul, come to Calcutta,” Vir Sanghvi once wrote.
A little bit of that soul was killed by Mocambo — by an establishment that has perhaps forgotten basic human values — which not just a city but every man, woman and child must stand for.
For years, whenever someone has asked me where I was from, I’ve always said Calcutta (not Kolkata). I was proud that I went to college in the city and fell in love with the city of my birth when it was time to fall in love. But today I had this epiphany – I’m a ‘Dilliwalah Dil Se’. This Kolkata is scary.


Tuesday, 25 October 2016

#ShobhaaDe: Right to comment and right to outrage

This is what has got our collective goat. For once I agree with trolls (there I said it) on Twitter.
Goal of Team India at the Olympics: Rio jao. Selfies lo. Khaali haat wapas aao. What a waste of money and opportunity.
I, for one, did not expect this from any Indian, not even the most self deprecating. After all for one there is no reason to give in to such despair, at least not just yet. India still has a few shots at winning medals – we were almost there yesterday with Abhinav Bindra finishing fourth narrowly. He had won a Gold at the 2008 Games — the only Indian till date to win an individual gold medal was humble as he bowed out…
Thank you all for your support. I did my best , which was not enough. It's been a good ride !
But humility apart, winning and losing are a part of sports and at the Olympics representing your country is a high in itself. Besides the despair is, I believe, misplaced.
There are still a lot of events in which India can expect to win. There is the wrestling contingent with Yogeshwar Dutt leading the pack, there is Sania Nehwal and India’s challenge in badminton. And shooters like Heena Sidhu and Jeetu Rai have an event each to try and wrest a medal for India. Hoping against hope, I’m rooting for the Indian tennis contingent. After all Paes did win in Atlanta 20 years ago and, if childhood memory serves me right, Indians always lifted their game when they played for the country in the Davis Cup.
Of course, the Twitterati have been agog at this tweet with sportspersons, politicians and celebrities sending some rather sharp and nasty responses.
Unsporting & crass for socialites to frivolously dis Indian athletes who have succeeded against all odds to get as far as Rio
@DeShobhaa that's a tad unfair. You should be proud of your athletes perusing human excellence against the whole world.
Ms. De, kindly run on the hockey pitch for 60 mins & hold a rifle like Abhinav and Gagan. Bit tougher than u think https://twitter.com/deshobhaa/status/762658754152325120 
@Abhinav_Bindra And do so despite of and in spite of there being no infra & institutional support, and no sporting culture @DeShobhaa
Lots of lament about medal tally, but no lament about lack of fitness culture (which builds a sporting nation) @Abhinav_Bindra@DeShobhaa
Yes.. As much as winning an Oscar.. being nominated in itself is a recognition.. Morons wont get it... https://twitter.com/YRDeshmukh/status/762675944696012800 
Some of them like singer Abhijeet’s however are laced with misogyny, and that is why I have decided not to mention them here.
But undaunted Shobha De continues to tweet on the subject:
Official apathy main reason why we fare so poorly during every Olympics, not just Rio. Difficult for athletes to 'compete' with this hurdle.

My colleague’s status message on FB sums it up the best,”Shobhaa De’s current status: How to Lose Fans and Alienate Friends in 140 characters.”